I'm a strong, proactive, & decisive guy.

First name

James

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I'm a strong, proactive & decisive guy, but generally easy-going. I'M ALSO CONSERVATIVE, meaning, an Untouchable Constitution & Bill of Rights, Rule of Law, Term Limits for all Politicians, Cut the Nat'l Debt, Free Markets, Peace through Strength, & Love of God & Country. I also love great art, classic design & architecture. For many years I was a Mortgage Banker in commercial real estate negotiating, applying due diligence, traveling, & closing large loans all over the country for Metropolitan Life. Before MetLife, I worked as a Mgt. Auditor for Walt Disney Productions. I audited the books of Mfrs. & licensees of Disney products & motion picture distributors nationwide, & coordinated inventory control at Disneyland with third-party CPAs.

My avocation, however, was into architectural design & the visual arts. I always look at things from the standpoint of ratio & proportion, light, color, scale & design sensitivity. I love to seek out truth & beauty. I surround myself with beautiful art, architecture, lush gardens, great timeless music including slow jazz, that's for spontaneous kitchen dancing, & a woman who has, as I see her, inner & outer beauty.

I also appreciate & admire people who have extraordinary finesse in everything they touch & do. I feel what they feel. They think things through & take pride in what they do whatever it may be. U can see it in their exceptional work ethic.

With everything I have noted in this profile, rest assured, money & all the transitory trappings this world has to offer are not my God.

I'm looking for a feminine woman who is genuine, compassionate & understands a good man. Both of us getting up in the morning & thanking God for what we have, not desperately chasing after this hectic world hoping to find happiness. I like to travel & someday I'll return to Europe to buy art with someone special.

One of the highest & most satisfying forms of happiness is true love. It's the very special person you're with, not the place, that excites a couple who are truly in love. Many of life's pressing problems seem to disappear when you have it. True Love takes time & a couple's committed priority to embrace open communication, listening, empathy, cooperation, vulnerability, & lots of affection, touch, & affirmation for it to develop, sustain, & flourish. It goes deep & it's magic. U laugh & play more, have more energy & smile a lot more. It is total & complete trust, respect, sharing, love, & compatibility between 2 happy people, 2 givers, 2 best friends. I can attest to that. My dear wife of 60 years died of Alzheimer's in 2020 & I was her caregiver.

The feminine woman I seek should be a Christian & have reasonably high stds, someone I can deeply respect, laugh, tease, & have fun with. I'll be able to open my heart to her once she feels safe & we emotionally connect at a deeper level of intimacy.

I hope to find a woman who is already content, but first & foremost, she should have made it a priority to love herself in a healthy way. Hopefully, she has interests & values similar to mine but as we all know & understand nothing in this life is perfect. We all have to compromise & be patient, caring & kind to each other

I'm looking forward to having fun with someone special. We'll both know the chemistry between us is there when we meet & talk over dinner or hang out with coffee, but always with good stimulating conversation & laughter. I hope the magic happens

Sign

Aquarius

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Hair

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Bald

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Retired

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Nerd

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Travel, Cooking, Gardening

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Meeting for lunch.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Conservative

My Goal In Life Is

Find a loving friend and companion, bring much joy into her life, and share our lives in compatibility.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Instructional, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Classical, Blues, Jazz

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Business, Health, History, Home & Garden, Instructional, Nature, Political, Reference, Religious, Science, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Being with a feminine woman who is genuine, compassionate, playful, smart, insightful, and understands a good man.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

The woman I seek should be a Christian & have reasonably high stds, someone I can deeply respect, laugh, tease, & have fun with. I'll be able to open my heart to her once she feels safe & we emotionally connect at a deeper level of intimacy.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Committed